Do nice guys finish last in this generation?

It seems that because of the expanded influence of media with the notion of long hair, singer in a band, sports player, money talks, chisel looks, all these things combine make for the more in demand for the general public. Many times you would see that men with these things are easily sway to cheat and disrepect their mate. Whatever happen to chivalry, kindness to others, gentlemen to the ladies, educated, and amognst other things of the past that are not really what is being seek by the ladies of today. Is fame that much more important then genuine happiness with someone who can understand you. Or is that the thing of the past and I'm just a living fossil? I respect women and cherish their opinion yet it is hard for me to find someone whom can appreciate what I have to offer. So I ask you what is important to you. Is it the bad boy, trash talking, rough, and tough that gets your devotion. Women gets treated badly but still wants to be with him..nice guys just can't win in this life?